NeemsF**k me and Feed me- the two essential “F’s”
June 12th 2008 06:23
It’s a crude title. But it had to be used for a couple of reasons. Firstly, it was a statement said with such gusto by a friend that I couldn’t resist using it. Secondly- it allows me to introduce a concept that’s spreading like butter on hot toast among women of this day and age.
Say hello to- Mr. Right-Now.
Mr. Right-Now is a man who perfectly fits into a busy schedule. As it becomes more acceptable for women not to find their “Mr. Right” right away, Mr. Right-Now effortlessly slides in and provides a woman with the things she often craves in her more vulnerable moments- affection, sex, attention and intimate company.
A woman may be at a time in her life where finding someone hasn’t necessarily been forgotten but is perhaps not her top priority. We’re getting to a stage where women are more secure and are embracing singledom more confidently. It’s a time where life can be all about her, her friends and her career because she’s finally realized that’s it’s alright for life with a partner and kids to come later.
With this comes the comfort in knowing that every man you date doesn’t necessarily have to be the one but can more often than not be fun and great company for now. Whether or not he turns into something long term or forever is a bonus more than anything else. A gentle reminder that dating is enjoyable- even if it doesn’t work out.
While for some, falling for Mr. Right-Now when it may not be reciprocated is a risky possibility, it’s a risk worth taking as the dating arena often proves to be the best teacher in the class of personal lessons in life.
Mr. Right-Now doesn’t request commitment, is easy-going and he understands and accepts the situation. He’s full of fun dates, great dining and good times. The sex that is now on tap can often be more intimate and adventurous as you get to know him. He comes with none of the demands that can strain those great short-term dating relationships. And while together, the freedom to see other people remains a delicious option.
Men have been doing it for years. Now a change in tide comes with a role reversal. Suddenly women aren’t waiting for that phone call; we aren’t on the constant look-out for our ‘Mr. Perfect’ and we are happy with our own company. This is single life for the new millennium and for once, women get to have some of the fun.
A friend of mine who works as a Bouncer at a bar let me in on a proposition he received from a regular patron a few nights ago, perfectly highlighting this new breed of woman.
Beautiful and smart, she was a lady who knew what she wanted and wasn’t afraid to ask.
Seductively moving towards him she whispered in his ear, teasingly brushing the delicate curves of his ears with her breath:
“My 32nd birthday is in two weeks. I want a present from you. I want you for one week, all to myself….no strings attached.”
Enough said.
Neema Mohan, 12th June, 2008 ©
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